Purpose of Pain...

The purpose of pain is to get us to fully express ourselves but since we don't know how to fully express ourselves we depress ourselves. How can we express the negatives things we feel inside ourselves with heartfelt honesty when we are afraid to express them out of fear of being censured or disapproved of by others. It takes courage to express and release the negative thoughts and feeling we have. It can be done, it must be done if we want to be free of the pain that stops us from living the life we want. 

Instead of cursing your pain, use your pain as an ALERT signal to change your thoughts so you can become pain-free.  Please view the video The End of Suffering By Eckhart Tolle